Monday, March 30, 2020

When Being a Germophobe Finally Stops Making Me Feel Like a Pariah


Protecting ourselves from germs in the time of the coronavirus pandemic


My brother-in-law gets the award in our family to be “a germophobe before it was cool”. I won’t steal that title from him. I am only his late-adoption second follower. Nowadays, the whole world’s gone apey with buying disinfectants!

The truth of it is, for me, until I had my open-heart surgery, I thought all the precautions were a bit exaggerated. And then, about four years ago, they opened my chest. And cut open my heart. And after all that was over they told me that I had no immunity for a while, because my body was busy creating white cells to heal my stitched-up heart and not creating white cells to protect me from infections. Infections which, in turn, could muck up (that is a very correct, strictly medical term) my newly inserted artificial aortic valve and my artificial aorta and cause me to get endocarditis (heart infection). In which case, I’d have the surgery all over again to redo the transplant. That is, if I were lucky enough to catch that before it would kill me.

I guess what used to be somewhat of a slur word has now become ennobling. Today, we’re all trying to protect ourselves and (hopefully) everyone else around us from spreading the coronavirus, so we all take pretty much the same precautions I have been taking for four years now. Because what we hear is that the number one thing we can do ourselves is to stay clean, kill the virus by repeated cleaning, and not spread it, if we do get it, by staying put. Some of these things I have now done since my surgery four years ago.

Some of the things I have always done:

·       I never put my silverware in a restaurant on the table. I wipe them (sometimes with hand sanitizer) and put them on a clean napkin (inside of the napkin out). Of course, we don’t worry about this right now, since we can’t eat out.
·       I never put my menu on my plates (again, now it’s not helpful, but keep in mind for when we get set free again).
·       I always have at least two small bottles of hand sanitizer with me. I sanitize my hands before I eat in restaurants (even after washing my hands in the same restaurant), after shopping anywhere, after using my credit card, or filling up my gas tank.
·       I try hard not to touch my face until I get home to properly wash my hands with very hot water and lots of soap. I scratch my nose and face with my elbow or my shoulder.
·       When I travel by plane, I travel with Lysol wipes and I disinfect everything around me that I touch: the armrests of my chair, my seat-belt, the table in front of me, the vent above my head, the light switches.
·       I never wear the clothes I wear on planes and airports the day after until after I have washed them again.
·       I never unpack my suitcase and I never touch anything in a hotel room until I wipe down all the hard surfaces, all the light switches, door knobs, bathroom fixtures, toilet, etc …
·       The first thing I do in a hotel room is remove the bed spread. That is infectious! Not traveling now, but this is my usual routine.
·       We (my husband and I both) wipe the handles of carts in grocery stores, even before the pandemic.
·       I have hand sanitizer not only in my purse, but also in my car and my husband’s car, as well as my travel pack and my carry-on pack.
·       I never go to pools or public hot tubs anymore. Not even to dip my toes!
·       Even before my surgery, I would never use the tubs in hotels, but now, I wear beach flip-flops in the shower of the hotels, for my feet not to touch the public tiles in the bathroom.

During this pandemic, I stepped it up a notch to also:

·       Disinfect the outside of boxes and bags that come from the grocery store with Lysol or alcohol.
·       Throw away (recycle) any plastic bags that I bring home.
·       Wear a mask when I go to the hospital for appointments. No, I am not making them unavailable to the medical staff, these are masks I had had for years. During flu season, for four years now, if I have had appointments, especially in a hospital, I have worn the masks. In January, before we knew about the coronavirus, I had an appointment for an MRI. I wore a mask because it was wintertime and I was going to be in a huge hospital where they see thousands of patients a day, either admitted there or from the ER. You just never know. Now, during the pandemic, I wear the mask even when I go to a clinic. I know they said masks won’t help you unless you’re sick, but I can’t help but think that someone who is already sick like a doctor or a nurse who sneezes around me can infect the air which I am breathing in, so I feel like a mask guards me against that polluted air.
·       Both my husband and I try very hard to respect the guidelines of social distancing nowadays, too. We had a neighborhood party where our neighbors placed lawn chairs in a circle in a cul-de-sac on our street, 6 feet apart from one another. They brought their own drinks and they had a “social distancing neighborhood party”. But I didn’t feel safe enough to go to it. They also brought a table where people could share finger foods.  I guess we’re still new to this germaphobia thing and this social distancing, but sharing your cooking with the neighbors is not, in fact, distancing much …
·       We go to the grocery store 2-3 times a week (we try less but they keep running out of things we need so we end up going several times till we find everything we need).
·       We order out from a couple of restaurants a week.
·       Outside of this, we stay put or walk by ourselves a lot.

And that reminds me: I always have appointments. Whether they are specialists’ appointments, or primary care visits, or lab tests, I have one at the very least once a month. This month, I was scheduled for a physical but my cardiologist emailed me to tell me not to go to it. He said the risk of exposure to the virus will be higher than the risk of skipping a routine physical, unless I had serious concerns that I had to clarify with my regular doctor. Which I didn’t. Funny thing was: the next day my regular doctor called to cancel it with pretty much the same reason: routine visits will stop so the staff can be available for the increase demand of possible flu patients.

As a heart patient, I am considered to be someone with a higher risk of mortality and increased severity if I contract this virus. I am trying to continue my “normal” protected routine as I am adding new guidelines to my caution. I am not panicking and I am not bored yet. There is so much to do in this house, so many projects and things I have always wanted and needed to do that I never had the time for. Time is all I have now – a luxury that might not come around often!

Also, I am not judging but I am shocked that so many people must not have had cleaning products, alcohol, soap and other cleaning supplies in their houses already – because obviously they all needed to get them now?! Or maybe they never got them before and they don’t know that you don’t need to get 10 bottles of Lysol. One will do for a couple of weeks. Or, geez, how long has it been since you really cleaned your house, people?! We were lucky to have most of these products already, but our supplies are dwindling now and the stores are still empty for the most part. Hopefully, people are stocked up for a while and the bounty of what was once overflowing American bounty will return.

Stay clean. Stay safe. Stay distanced. Keep warm hearts, everyone! Let’s see each other on the other side of this, with lots of good stories to tell!

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